Losing a loved one is never easy. The reality of their absence can be hard to accept, often feeling surreal, as if it were just a dream. In times of grief, music can serve as a powerful source of healing for the soul.
By Timothy Kuhamba
Recently, Zimbabwe faced the tragic loss of two young lives, Stephanie Kuhamba and Lacere Masese, who had just completed their Form 6 exams. Heartbreakingly, they passed away just days before their results were announced and were buried on the same day their results were revealed. It’s devastating to realise that the future of Zimbabwe lies in the hands of our youth, yet we are losing these bright individuals far too soon. As the saying goes, “Nyika inovakwa nevene vayo”—the nation is built by its people. It is truly sorrowful to witness our young ones depart this life so early.
No one wishes for anyone to pass away, yet it often seems that the brightest among us are taken first. In moments of sorrow, many find themselves questioning why this happens. Ultimately, we must accept that life has its course when the time arrives.”
I want to extend my heartfelt gratitude to the musicians who have composed songs to console grieving families. Music has an extraordinary ability to heal during these challenging times, and the songs I’ve shortlisted carry messages that resonate deeply. Here are some that bring me comfort in this difficult period:
- Sam Mtukudzi — “Mweya Famba Zvakanaka”
- Noel Zembe — “Ndangariro”
- Oliver Mtukudzi — “Rufu”
- Seh Calaz — “Tinosanganana”
- Blessing Shumba — “Kurwa Kwanaka”
- Tawanda Mutyebere — “Ikoko”
- Oliver Mtukudzi — “Tungamira”
- Cynthia Mare — “Hatina Musha Panyika”
- Simon Chimbetu — “Samatenga”
- St. Luke Rugare — “Kana Zvarema”
This list is not exhaustive, and I welcome any additional suggestions.
May the Lord Almighty bring comfort to the Kuhamba and Masese families during these trying times. As the Bible reminds us, “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.” (Matthew 5:4)”
To Stephanie and Lacere, though you cannot hear or read this message, Blessing Shumba beautifully expresses: “Makarwa kurwa kwanaka murwi kurwa kunoshamisa akatendeka kubata basa rashe, Tinoti Zororai iiiih Zororai iiih Zororai tinoti tinouya Kuda kwashe nesu tinouya ndiyo nzira yashe.”
The hardest part is simply imagining that you are gone. My heart bleeds. I have written this tribute as a token of appreciation for our time on earth. Your death has taught me many things; I know that death exists. However, the pain is just different—this is truly a deep cut.
Rest in Peace, my dear Stephanie Kuhamba. I will miss you until we meet again, God willing. Mweya famba zvakanaka iwe, mweya famba zvakanaka.
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Thank you so much. May their souls find rest.
Powerful tribute Timothy. May God comfort you and both families.